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Married couple words

Word sets, Stage 3chunk 10 of 19Family

Lets you understand the casual and older words couples use.

Mix-ups shujin and danna are your own husband; goshujin and dannasan are someone else's.

danna

polite dannasan

husband; hubby

Casual word for your own husband; someone else's is dannasan.

casual

danna, mada kaette konai

My husband still isn't home.

旦那、まだ帰ってこない

polite

danna wa kyou shutchou desu

My husband's away on business today.

旦那は今日出張です

Written 旦那 · だんな · 旦那さんRank #1231 in 3,030 TV dramas

fuufu

married couple; husband and wife

casual

ano futari, fuufu na no?

Are those two married?

あの二人、夫婦なの?

polite

fuufu de kissaten o yatte imasu

My wife and I run a café together.

夫婦で喫茶店をやっています

Written 夫婦 · ふうふRank #1254 in 3,030 TV dramas

shujin

polite goshujin

my husband

Older-style word a wife uses for her own husband, mostly in polite talk.

Also means master or owner. Some avoid it as old-fashioned.

casual

shujin wa mada neteru

My husband's still asleep.

主人はまだ寝てる

polite

shujin wa ima rusu desu

My husband is out right now.

主人は今留守です

Written 主人 · しゅじん · ご主人Rank #1832 in 3,030 TV dramas

yome

polite okusan

wife; daughter-in-law

Many men use it casually for their own wife; traditionally it means a son's wife.

Some find it old-fashioned; tsuma is the neutral word.

casual

kinou yome ni okorareta yo

My wife got mad at me yesterday.

昨日嫁に怒られたよ

polite

yome no jikka ni ikimasu

I'm going to my wife's parents' place.

嫁の実家に行きます

Written 嫁 · よめ · 奥さんRank #2260 in 3,030 TV dramas