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Pretending and trying

Conjugations, Stage 3chunk 2 of 5Grammar patterns

Talk about pretending, attempts that got cut off, and what you won't do.

Mix-ups -ou to suru (tried, was about to) vs -te goran and -te miru (try it and see).

-furi o suru

〜ふりをする

pretend to; act as if

Speech often drops the o: 'shiranai furi suru'.

Make it plain form + furi o suru; noun + no furi; na-adjective + na furi

Polite -furi o shimasu

Also written フリ. The everyday ones are 'shiranai furi' (playing dumb) and 'neta furi' (pretending to sleep).

casual

kanojo, kikoenai furi shiteta yo

She was pretending not to hear.

彼女、聞こえないふりしてたよ

polite

kanojo wa kikoenai furi o shite imashita

She was pretending not to hear.

彼女は聞こえないふりをしていました

Rank #3947 in 3,030 TV dramas

-ou to suru

〜おうとする

try to; be about to

Mostly past, -ou to shita, for an attempt that failed or got interrupted: 'I was just about to'.

Make it volitional form (-ou / -you) + to suru

Polite -ou to shimasu

Compare -te miru (try it and see) and -ou to omou (plan to). Negative: 'kikou to shinai' (won't even listen).

casual

neyou to shitara, tomodachi kara denwa ga kita

Just as I was going to sleep, a friend called.

寝ようとしたら、友達から電話が来た

polite

neyou to shitara, tomodachi kara denwa ga kimashita

Just as I was about to go to sleep, a friend called.

寝ようとしたら、友達から電話が来ました

Rank #1815 in 3,030 TV dramas

-ki wa nai

〜気はない

have no intention of; don't feel like

A firm 'I'm not going to'.

Make it dictionary form + ki wa nai

Polite -ki wa arimasen

The positive is -ki ga aru (be willing): 'yaru ki aru?' (are you up for it?). 'yaru ki' alone means motivation.

casual

mou ano mise ni iku ki wa nai yo

I've got no intention of going to that place again.

もうあの店に行く気はないよ

polite

mou ano mise ni iku ki wa arimasen

I have no intention of going to that shop again.

もうあの店に行く気はありません

Rank #2757 in 3,030 TV dramas

-te goran

〜てごらん

try doing (said to a child or junior)

A gentle 'go on, try it' from parents, teachers or seniors.

Make it -te form + goran

Never use it upward; to equals say -te mite. 'goran kudasai' is the polite 'please look' in shops and announcements.

casual

chotto tabete goran, oishii yo

Go on, have a taste, it's good.

ちょっと食べてごらん、おいしいよ

Rank #3098 in 3,030 TV dramas