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Asking first asking advice

Conversation phrases, Stage 2chunk 31 of 71Asking and following up

Opens a question, checks it's okay, or asks for advice.

Mix-ups ii no? checks it's really okay; ii yo is the reply 'it's fine'.

kiite mo ii?

polite kiite mo ii desu ka

can I ask you something?

Lead-in before a personal or awkward question.

Very polite version: ukagatte mo yoroshii desu ka.

casual

chotto kiite mo ii? kanojo iru?

Can I ask you something? Do you have a girlfriend?

ちょっと聞いてもいい?彼女いる?

polite

hitotsu kiite mo ii desu ka?

Can I ask you one thing?

一つ聞いてもいいですか?

Written 聞いてもいい? · きいてもいい · 聞いてもいいですかWho you say itHeard 228× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles

dou shitara ii?

polite dou shitara ii desu ka

what should I do?

Asks someone for advice when you're stuck or don't know the next step.

Dou sureba ii? means the same.

casual

kagi nakushichatta. dou shitara ii?

I lost my keys. What should I do?

鍵なくしちゃった。どうしたらいい?

polite

kagi o nakushite shimatta n desu ga, dou shitara ii desu ka?

I've lost my key. What should I do?

鍵をなくしてしまったんですが、どうしたらいいですか?

Written どうしたらいい? · どうしたらいい · どうしたらいいですかWho you say it and hear itHeard 999× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles

ii no?

polite ii n desu ka

are you sure?; is it really okay?

Checks that someone means it when they offer you something or do you a favour; follow with thanks.

Also asks permission after a -te verb: kore tabete ii no? (can I eat this?).

casual

e, ogori? ii no?

Wait, your treat? Are you sure?

え、おごり?いいの?

polite

e, ii n desu ka? arigatou gozaimasu.

Oh, are you sure? Thank you.

え、いいんですか?ありがとうございます。

Written いいの? · いいの · いいんですかWho you say it and hear itHeard 956× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles