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Very polite speech

Conjugations, Stage 4chunk 2 of 6Grammar patterns

Understand and use the keigo of shops, offices and polite requests.

Mix-ups kudasaru (they kindly do it for you) vs itadaku (you humbly receive it).

gozaimasu

ございます

is; there is, we have (very polite)

Shop and hotel staff use it in place of desu and arimasu; you mostly hear it rather than say it.

Make it noun + de gozaimasu (= desu); noun + ga gozaimasu (= arimasu)

The dictionary form gozaru is archaic. You do say it in set phrases: arigatou gozaimasu, ohayou gozaimasu, omedetou gozaimasu.

casual

kochira ga atarashii moderu de gozaimasu

This is the new model.

こちらが新しいモデルでございます

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-te itadakeru

〜ていただける

could you (kindly)

The standard polite request to strangers, staff and people at work; -te itadakemasen ka is softer still.

Make it -te form + itadakemasu ka / itadakemasen ka

One step politer than -te moraemasu ka. Literally 'can I receive the favour of you doing'.

casual

sumimasen, shashin totte itadakemasu ka

Excuse me, could you take our photo?

すみません、写真撮っていただけますか

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-te kudasaru

〜てくださる

kindly do (for me), said of someone above you

The respectful -te kureru: a teacher, boss or customer does something for you.

Make it -te form + kudasaru (masu form: kudasaimasu)

Polite -te kudasaimasu

Common in thanks: 'kite kudasatte arigatou gozaimasu' (thank you for coming). -te kudasai is its request form; never use it for your own actions.

casual

sensei ga eki made okutte kudasatta n da

My teacher kindly took me to the station.

先生が駅まで送ってくださったんだ

polite

sensei ga eki made okutte kudasaimashita

My teacher was kind enough to take me to the station.

先生が駅まで送ってくださいました

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-sasete itadaku

〜させていただく

humbly do; allow me to

Announces your own action very politely, as if asking permission; everywhere in business, shops and speeches.

Make it causative -te form + itadaku (yasumasete, ikasete, shitsurei sasete)

Overused in business talk, so it can sound stiff. With friends, just say -sasete or -sasete morau.

casual

kyou wa kore de shitsurei sasete itadakimasu

If you'll excuse me, I'll be leaving now.

今日はこれで失礼させていただきます

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