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A rough time

Idioms, Stage 1chunk 13 of 21Luck, trouble & outcomes

Going through something bad, from one nasty experience to one blow after another.

  • hidoi me ni auhave an awful timeliterally “meet a terrible eye (me = an experience)”
  • itai me ni auget hurt; get burned (pay for a mistake)literally “meet a painful eye (me = an experience)”
  • share ni naranaiit's no joke, it's seriously badliterally “it doesn't become a joke”
  • ma ga waruibad timing, an awkward momentliterally “the interval is bad”
  • fundari kettarione bad thing after anotherliterally “stepping on (you) and kicking (you)”

Mix-ups hidoi me ni au (an awful time) vs itai me ni au (paying for a mistake) share me ni au; ma ga warui (bad timing) sounds like ma ga sashita (a sudden lapse) in Getting carried away.

hidoi me ni au

polite hidoi me ni aimasu

Literally

“meet a terrible eye (me = an experience)”

Means

have an awful time

How people tell any bad-experience story, from a ruined trip to being cheated. It is almost always in the past: hidoi me ni atta. Here me means 'experience', not 'eye'.

Stronger variant: sanzan na me ni atta; making someone suffer is hidoi me ni awaseru.

casual

kinou hidoi me ni atta yo

I had an awful time yesterday.

昨日ひどい目に遭ったよ

polite

kinou hidoi me ni aimashita yo

I had an awful time yesterday.

昨日ひどい目に遭いましたよ

Written ひどい目に遭う · ひどいめにあうHeard 338× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitlesLearn alongside itai me ni auMain list hidoi (Stage 2)

itai me ni au

polite itai me ni aimasu

Literally

“meet a painful eye (me = an experience)”

Means

get hurt; get burned (pay for a mistake)

In English: learn the hard way

Three uses: a threat of harm (itai me ni aitakunakattara damatte ro, if you don't want to get hurt, shut up), a warning about consequences (amaku miteru to itai me ni au yo) and a look back (mukashi itai me ni atta). hidoi me is about having a bad time; itai me is about getting hurt or paying for a mistake.

Same meaning: itai me o miru; the threat 'you'll pay for this' is itai me ni awaseru zo.

casual

amaku miteru to itai me ni au yo

Take it lightly and you'll get burned.

甘く見てると痛い目に遭うよ

polite

amaku miteru to itai me ni aimasu yo

If you underestimate it, you'll get burned.

甘く見てると痛い目に遭いますよ

Written 痛い目に遭う · いたいめにあうHeard 110× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitlesLearn alongside hidoi me ni auMain list itai (Stage 2)

share ni naranai

polite share ni narimasen

Literally

“it doesn't become a joke”

Means

it's no joke, it's seriously bad

In English: no laughing matter

A reaction to something that is past being funny, like dangerous heat, a huge bill or a prank gone wrong: kore wa share ni naranai. Casual speech shortens it to share ni nannai.

Casual: share ni nannai; plain alternative: yabai.

casual

kono atsusa, share ni nannai yo

This heat is no joke.

この暑さ、シャレになんないよ

polite

kono atsusa wa share ni narimasen ne

This heat is seriously no joke.

この暑さはシャレになりませんね

Written 洒落にならない · しゃれにならないHeard 7× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitlesMain list naru (Stage 1), -nai (Stage 1)

ma ga warui

polite ma ga warui desu

Literally

“the interval is bad”

Means

bad timing, an awkward moment

Said when something happens at just the wrong moment, like walking in on an argument: ma ga warui naa. It also describes someone with a knack for bad timing. Before a noun it's ma no warui, and ma no warui koto ni means 'as (bad) luck would have it'. It isn't un ga warui, which means bad luck in general.

Plain alternative: taimingu ga warui.

casual

ma no warui koto ni, choudo kachou ga kita n da yo

As luck would have it, the boss showed up right then.

間の悪いことに、ちょうど課長が来たんだよ

polite

ma no warui koto ni, choudo kachou ga kita n desu yo

As luck would have it, the boss showed up just then.

間の悪いことに、ちょうど課長が来たんですよ

Written 間が悪い · まがわるいHeard 31× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitlesLearn alongside ma ga sashita (Stage 3)Main list warui (Stage 1), kuru (Stage 1), n da (Stage 1)

fundari kettari

polite fundari kettari desu

Literally

“stepping on (you) and kicking (you)”

Means

one bad thing after another

In English: when it rains, it pours

The bad-day summary when one blow lands on top of another: kyou wa fundari kettari da. Said about your own luck or, very often, in sympathy after a friend lists their mishaps (sore wa fundari kettari datta ne, what a run of bad luck).

Plain alternative: tsuitenai (I'm out of luck).

casual

kyou wa hontou ni fundari kettari da yo.

Today's been one thing after another.

今日は本当に踏んだり蹴ったりだよ。

polite

kyou wa hontou ni fundari kettari deshita.

Today was one thing after another.

今日は本当に踏んだり蹴ったりでした。

Written 踏んだり蹴ったり · ふんだりけったりHeard 3× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitlesMain list kyou (Stage 1), honto ni (Stage 1)