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Must and don't have to

Conjugations, Stage 1chunk 8 of 15Verb forms

Obligation, permission and prohibition, mostly built from -nai and -te.

Mix-ups -nakya (have to) vs -nakute mo ii (don't have to); -cha dame (mustn't) vs -chau (did it).

-nakya / -nakereba

have to〜なきゃ・〜なければ

Have to, must.

Casual -nakya (or -nakucha) for what you've got to do. The full -nakereba naranai is formal.

Make it Make the -nai form, then swap nai for nakya (or nakereba): tabenakya, kawanakya, ikanakya. suru → shinakya, kuru → konakya. The 'or else' ending (ikenai, naranai) is usually dropped in speech.

Polite -nakereba narimasen

Don't mix it up with -nakute mo ii: ikanakya = I have to go; ikanakute mo ii = I don't have to go.

taberutabenakya食べなきゃ
miruminakya見なきゃ
kaukawanakya買わなきゃ
matsumatanakya待たなきゃ
kaerukaeranakya帰らなきゃ
nomunomanakya飲まなきゃ
asobuasobanakya遊ばなきゃ
kakukakanakya書かなきゃ
oyoguoyoganakya泳がなきゃ
hanasuhanasanakya話さなきゃ
ikuikanakya行かなきゃ
surushinakyaしなきゃ
kurukonakya来なきゃ
casual

yabai, mou ikanakya. mata ne

Yikes, I've got to go. See you.

やばい、もう行かなきゃ。またね。

polite

sumimasen, mou ikanakereba narimasen

I'm sorry, I have to go now.

すみません、もう行かなければなりません。

Heard 9,945× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles (0.44% of verbs)Main list -nakya (Stage 3)

-nakute

not, and / don't have to〜なくて

Not ... and; because (it's) not ...; with mo ii, don't have to.

Giving a reason something didn't work out, and with mo ii, telling someone they don't need to.

Make it Make the -nai form, then swap nai for nakute: tabenakute, kawanakute, ikanakute. suru → shinakute, kuru → konakute.

For 'please don't', use -naide, not -nakute: tabenaide (don't eat it).

taberutabenakute食べなくて
miruminakute見なくて
kaukawanakute買わなくて
matsumatanakute待たなくて
kaerukaeranakute帰らなくて
nomunomanakute飲まなくて
asobuasobanakute遊ばなくて
kakukakanakute書かなくて
oyoguoyoganakute泳がなくて
hanasuhanasanakute話さなくて
ikuikanakute行かなくて
surushinakuteしなくて
kurukonakute来なくて
casual

kyou wa konakute mo ii yo

You don't have to come today.

今日は来なくてもいいよ。

polite

kyou wa konakute mo ii desu yo

You don't need to come today.

今日は来なくてもいいですよ。

Heard 2,167× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles (0.09% of verbs)

-te mo ii

may / it's OK to〜てもいい

It's OK to...; can I...?

Asking for permission (-te mo ii?) and giving it.

Make it te-form plus mo ii: tabete mo ii, katte mo ii, nonde mo ii. suru → shite mo ii, kuru → kite mo ii.

Polite -te mo ii desu

In speech mo often drops: tabete ii? = can I eat it?

taberutabete mo ii食べてもいい
mirumite mo ii見てもいい
kaukatte mo ii買ってもいい
matsumatte mo ii待ってもいい
kaerukaette mo ii帰ってもいい
nomunonde mo ii飲んでもいい
asobuasonde mo ii遊んでもいい
kakukaite mo ii書いてもいい
oyoguoyoide mo ii泳いでもいい
hanasuhanashite mo ii話してもいい
ikuitte mo ii行ってもいい
surushite mo iiしてもいい
kurukite mo ii来てもいい
casual

kore, tabete mo ii?

Can I eat this?

これ、食べてもいい?

polite

kore, tabete mo ii desu ka?

May I eat this?

これ、食べてもいいですか?

Heard 2,369× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles (0.10% of verbs)Main list -te mo ii (Stage 3)

-cha dame

mustn't〜ちゃだめ

Mustn't, don't.

Casual 'you can't do that', often to children or close friends.

Make it It's -te wa squeezed together: -te → -cha, -de → -ja, then add dame: tabecha dame, katcha dame, nonja dame. suru → shicha dame, kuru → kicha dame.

Polite -te wa ikemasen

Don't confuse it with -chau (did, often by accident): tabechatta = I ate it all; tabecha dame = don't eat it.

taberutabecha dame食べちゃだめ
mirumicha dame見ちゃだめ
kaukatcha dame買っちゃだめ
matsumatcha dame待っちゃだめ
kaerukaetcha dame帰っちゃだめ
nomunonja dame飲んじゃだめ
asobuasonja dame遊んじゃだめ
kakukaicha dame書いちゃだめ
oyoguoyoija dame泳いじゃだめ
hanasuhanashicha dame話しちゃだめ
ikuitcha dame行っちゃだめ
surushicha dameしちゃだめ
kurukicha dame来ちゃだめ
casual

koko de shashin totcha dame da yo

You can't take photos here.

ここで写真撮っちゃだめだよ。

polite

koko de shashin o totte wa ikemasen

You mustn't take photos here.

ここで写真を撮ってはいけません。

Heard 1,790× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles (0.08% of verbs)Main list -cha dame / -ja dame (Stage 3)