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Chatting and going quiet

Core words, Stage 2chunk 9 of 80Verbs: talking

Lets you talk about chatting, greeting, striking up a conversation and going silent.

Mix-ups Hanashikakeru (speak to someone first) vs shaberu (just chatting).

shaberu

polite shaberimasu

talk, chat; speak (a language)

Also 'blab': dare ni mo shaberanaide = don't tell anyone.

More casual than hanasu, and leans toward chatting.

casual

kinou zutto tomodachi to shabetteta.

I was chatting with friends all day yesterday.

昨日ずっと友達としゃべってた。

polite

kinou wa zutto tomodachi to shabette imashita.

I was chatting with friends all day yesterday.

昨日はずっと友達としゃべっていました。

Written しゃべる · しゃべりますRank #745 in 3,030 TV dramas

damaru

polite damarimasu

go quiet; shut up; keep (something) quiet

Damatte! alone is a blunt 'shut up!'. Oya ni damatte = without telling your parents.

casual

nande zutto damatteru no?

Why have you gone so quiet?

なんでずっと黙ってるの?

polite

doushite zutto damatte iru n desu ka?

Why have you been so quiet?

どうしてずっと黙っているんですか?

Written 黙る · だまる · 黙りますRank #408 in 3,030 TV dramas

aisatsu suru

polite aisatsu shimasu

greet; say hello; give a short speech

Saying hello properly, or a formal few words at an event.

Aisatsu ni iku = pay a courtesy visit (new neighbours, in-laws).

casual

tonari no hito ni aisatsu shita?

Did you say hello to the neighbours?

隣の人に挨拶した?

polite

tonari no kata ni aisatsu shimashita ka?

Did you say hello to the neighbours?

隣の方に挨拶しましたか?

Written 挨拶する · あいさつする · 挨拶しますRank #1453 in 3,030 TV dramas

hanashikakeru

polite hanashikakemasu

talk to; start a conversation with

Being the one who speaks first: X ni hanashikakeru.

Ima hanashikakenaide = don't talk to me right now.

casual

densha de shiranai hito ni hanashikakerareta.

A stranger started talking to me on the train.

電車で知らない人に話しかけられた。

polite

densha de shiranai hito ni hanashikakeraremashita.

A stranger started talking to me on the train.

電車で知らない人に話しかけられました。

Written 話しかける · はなしかける · 話しかけますRank #2661 in 3,030 TV dramas