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Partners and cheating

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Lets you talk about dating, cheating and being single.

Mix-ups uwaki is cheating in general; furin involves a married person.

kareshi

boyfriend

Girlfriend is kanojo. Use iru, not aru: kareshi ga iru.

casual

kareshi iru no?

Do you have a boyfriend?

彼氏いるの?

polite

kareshi wa imasu ka?

Do you have a boyfriend?

彼氏はいますか?

Written 彼氏 · かれしRank #1230 in 3,030 TV dramas

koibito

boyfriend or girlfriend; partner

Gender-neutral and a bit more serious than kareshi or kanojo.

casual

koibito to issho ni sunderu n da.

I live with my partner.

恋人と一緒に住んでるんだ。

polite

koibito to issho ni sunde imasu.

I live with my partner.

恋人と一緒に住んでいます。

Written 恋人 · こいびとRank #1277 in 3,030 TV dramas

uwaki

cheating (on a partner)

Mostly as uwaki suru (to cheat) and uwaki sareta (got cheated on).

For an affair involving a married person, furin is more common.

casual

kare ni uwaki sareta.

My boyfriend cheated on me.

彼に浮気された。

polite

kare ni uwaki saremashita.

My boyfriend cheated on me.

彼に浮気されました。

Written 浮気 · うわきRank #1991 in 3,030 TV dramas

furin

affair (involving a married person)

Used when at least one person is married; often furin suru.

Mix-up: uwaki is cheating in general, including while dating.

casual

ano futari, furin shiteru rashii yo.

Apparently those two are having an affair.

あの二人、不倫してるらしいよ。

polite

ano futari wa furin shite iru rashii desu.

I hear those two are having an affair.

あの二人は不倫しているらしいです。

Written 不倫 · ふりんRank #2426 in 3,030 TV dramas

dokushin

single; unmarried

About marriage, not dating: dokushin means not married.

casual

ani wa mada dokushin da yo.

My older brother's still single.

兄はまだ独身だよ。

polite

ani wa mada dokushin desu.

My older brother is still single.

兄はまだ独身です。

Written 独身 · どくしんRank #2663 in 3,030 TV dramas