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Relationships and boundaries

Core words, Stage 2chunk 39 of 80Reasons and situations

Lets you ask how people are connected and say what's your own business.

Mix-ups Jiyuu means free to choose, not free of charge.

kankei

relationship; connection

Links between people or things: futari no kankei (their relationship), ~ to kankei ga aru (be connected to ~).

Ningen kankei = relationships with people (at work, school). The negative kankei nai is very common.

casual

ano futari, dou iu kankei?

What's the deal with those two?

あの二人、どういう関係?

polite

ano futari wa dou iu kankei desu ka?

How do those two know each other?

あの二人はどういう関係ですか?

Written 関係 · かんけいRank #392 in 3,030 TV dramas

kankei nai

polite kankei arimasen

has nothing to do with; doesn't matter

A curt shutdown in arguments, and 'doesn't matter': toshi wa kankei nai (age doesn't matter).

Anata ni wa kankei nai = it's none of your business; it sounds cold.

casual

sore, ima no hanashi to kankei nai yo

That's got nothing to do with what we're talking about.

それ、今の話と関係ないよ

polite

sore wa ima no hanashi to kankei arimasen yo

That has nothing to do with what we're talking about.

それは今の話と関係ありませんよ

Written 関係ない · かんけいない · 関係ありませんRank #475 in 3,030 TV dramas

jiyuu

polite jiyuu desu

free; freedom

Free to do as you like, not free of charge (that's tada or muryou).

Jiyuu ni = freely, as you like. Jiyuu jikan = free time.

casual

kyou wa jiyuu ni shite ii yo

You can do whatever you like today.

今日は自由にしていいよ

polite

kyou wa jiyuu ni shite ii desu yo

Feel free to do whatever you like today.

今日は自由にしていいですよ

Written 自由 · じゆう · 自由ですRank #888 in 3,030 TV dramas

puraibeeto

private life; personal time; private

Your life outside work: puraibeeto na koto (personal stuff), puraibeeto de (in your own time).

Puraibeeto de au = meet socially, not for work.

casual

shigoto to puraibeeto wa waketai

I want to keep work and my private life separate.

仕事とプライベートは分けたい

polite

shigoto to puraibeeto wa waketai desu

I'd like to keep work and my private life separate.

仕事とプライベートは分けたいです

Written プライベートRank #2639 in 3,030 TV dramas