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Picking someone up

Collocations, Stage 3chunk 15 of 23Getting around

Collecting someone and driving them: going to get them, taking their bags, giving them a lift, parking, and stopping at the konbini on the way.

Mix-ups For mukae ni iku Japanese says iku where English says 'I'll come'. noseru (give a lift) is the transitive of noru. tomeru (park) gets mixed up with yoru (drop in) and with tomaru (a car pulling up, or staying the night).

mukae ni iku

polite mukae ni ikimasuheard 4×

go to pick someone up

迎えに行く むかえにいく 迎えに行きます

verbiku 行くgo (mukae is the noun of mukaeru, meet and welcome)typical 9% of mukae

trap Not mukae ni kuru for 'I'll come get you': you are the one going, so it is mukae ni iku (only 'come get me' is mukae ni kite). 'Pick up' is not toru here either. Among friends with a car, hirou also works for grabbing someone on the way (tochuu de hirotteku yo), but not for meeting a guest or collecting a child.

Paired with kuru for the other direction: mukae ni iku ne (I'll come get you) and mukae ni kite (come get me). Japanese says iku where English says 'I'll come'.

casual

eki made mukae ni iku ne.

I'll come pick you up at the station.

駅まで迎えに行くね。

polite

eki made mukae ni ikimasu ne.

I'll come and pick you up at the station.

駅まで迎えに行きますね。

Collecting a child from nursery is omukae: hoikuen ni omukae ni iku.

Same verb: eki (station), kuukou (airport), hoikuen (nursery)Main list: -ni iku / -ni kuru (Stage 4), iku (Stage 1), kuru (Stage 1)

nimotsu o motsu

polite nimotsu o mochimasuheard 67×

carry the bags

荷物を持つ にもつをもつ 荷物を持ちます

verbmotsu 持つhold, carry (in your hands); have with youtypical 12% of nimotsu

trap English 'carry' points to hakobu, which is moving things to a place (a porter, a removal van). Taking a bag off someone's hands, or carrying your own, is motsu.

Mostly an offer: nimotsu motsu yo, or motou ka? (shall I take that?). Casual speech drops o, and nimotsu motteru means you have bags with you.

casual

omoi desho, nimotsu motsu yo.

That must be heavy, let me take your bag.

重いでしょ、荷物持つよ。

polite

omoi desu yo ne, nimotsu mochimasu yo.

That looks heavy, let me carry your bag.

重いですよね、荷物持ちますよ。

nimotsu is also a parcel: nimotsu todoita (my package came).

Same verb: kaban (bag), kasa (umbrella), fukuro (carrier bag)Main list: motsu (Stage 1)

kuruma ni noseru

polite kuruma ni nosemasuheard 92×

give someone a lift

車に乗せる くるまにのせる 車に乗せます

verbnoseru 乗せるput on board; give someone a ride (the transitive of noru)typical 2% of kuruma

trap Not raido o ageru or kuruma o ageru (that gives the car away): giving a lift is noseru (put on board), the transitive of noru, with kureru or iku only as helpers after it (nosete kureru?, nosete ku yo). norasete means 'let me ride it', as with a friend's new bike, not 'give me a lift'.

Mostly a request or an offer: nosete kureru? (can you give me a lift?), eki made nosete tte (give me a lift to the station), nosete ku yo (I'll give you a lift), nosete moratta (I got a lift). Once the car is clear the noun often drops.

casual

kaeri, kuruma nosete kureru?

Can you give me a lift back?

帰り、車乗せてくれる?

polite

kaeri, kuruma ni nosete moraemasu ka?

Could you give me a lift back?

帰り、車に乗せてもらえますか?

Driving someone all the way somewhere is often okuru: ie made okuru yo (I'll take you home).

Same verb: jitensha (bike), baiku (motorbike)Learn alongside: densha ni noru, basu ni noru, kuruma ni noru, densha o oriru, jitensha ni noru, eki o norisugosu, hikouki ni noruMain list: -te kureru (Stage 2), -te iku (Stage 4), -te morau (Stage 2)

kuruma o tomeru

polite kuruma o tomemasuheard 240×

park the car

車を止める くるまをとめる 車を止めます

verbtomeru 止めるstop (something moving); park (a car, a bike)typical 6% of kuruma

trap Not paaku suru (paakingu is a car park, as in koin paakingu) and not yameru (quit): parking is tomeru, 'stop' the car. chuusha suru is correct but formal, the word on signs (chuusha kinshi) and in polite asks; in everyday talk people still say chuushajou (car park) and chuusha ga nigate (I'm bad at parking).

The everyday word for parking, with ni for the spot: doko ni tomeru? (where shall we park?), koko tomete ii? (can I park here?). The same verb stops any car, so in a taxi you say koko de tomete kudasai.

casual

kuruma, doko ni tomereba ii?

Where should I park the car?

車、どこに止めればいい?

polite

kuruma wa doko ni tomereba ii desu ka?

Where should I park the car?

車はどこに止めればいいですか?

A car sitting there is the intransitive tomatteru: mise no mae ni kuruma tomatteru.

Same verb: jitensha (bike), baiku (motorbike)Learn alongside: hoteru ni tomaru, konbini ni yoruMain list: yameru (Stage 4)

konbini ni yoru

polite konbini ni yorimasuheard rarely

stop by the convenience store

コンビニに寄る コンビニによる コンビニに寄ります

verbyoru 寄るdrop in on the way; come close to

trap Not konbini ni tomaru: that tomaru is a car pulling up there (konbini de tomatte = pull over at the konbini; parking is kuruma o tomeru), and the overnight tomaru never fits a shop. Dropping in on the way is yoru: konbini yotteku.

Almost always followed by a direction verb: konbini yotteku (I'll stop at the konbini on the way) or yotte kaeru (stop off on the way home). Casual speech drops ni.

casual

chotto konbini yotteku ne.

I'm just going to stop by the konbini.

ちょっとコンビニ寄ってくね。

polite

chotto konbini ni yotte ikimasu ne.

I'm just going to stop by the convenience store.

ちょっとコンビニに寄っていきますね。

Sounds the same as yoru (night) and -ni yoru (it depends on); yotteku? also invites someone to drop in.

Same verb: suupaa (supermarket), ginkou (bank), tomodachi no ie (a friend's place)Learn alongside: hoteru ni tomaru, kuruma o tomeruMain list: -ni yoru (Stage 4), yoru (Stage 2), -te iku (Stage 4)