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Tough and tiring

Core words, Stage 1chunk 31 of 55Adjectives: feelings

Lets you complain that something is a pain, hard, or wearing you out.

  • mendokusaiwhat a pain; such a hassle; can't be bothered
  • tsuraihard; painful (emotionally); rough
  • kitsuitough; hard (on you); tight (clothes); harsh (words)
  • shindoiexhausting; tough; worn out
  • kurushiipainful; hard to breathe; hard to bear

Mix-ups Tsurai, kitsui and shindoi overlap; kurushii leans physical (breathing, too full).

mendokusai

polite mendokusai desu

what a pain; such a hassle; can't be bothered

The everyday grumble about chores; of a person, 'mendokusai hito' = a difficult, high-maintenance person.

Spoken form of mendoukusai; often cut further to mendoi. The noun mendou (hassle) sounds softer in polite talk.

casual

ryouri suru no, mendokusai na.

Cooking is such a pain.

料理するの、めんどくさいな。

polite

ryouri suru no wa mendokusai desu ne.

Cooking is such a hassle, isn't it?

料理するのはめんどくさいですね。

Written 面倒くさい · めんどくさい · めんどくさいですRank #2750 in 3,030 TV dramas

tsurai

polite tsurai desu

hard; painful (emotionally); rough

For things that hurt or wear you down: a breakup, a hard job, getting up early.

The kanji 辛い is also read karai (spicy); in speech the meaning is clear.

casual

asa hayaku okiru no, tsurai na.

Getting up early is rough.

朝早く起きるの、つらいな。

polite

asa hayaku okiru no wa tsurai desu.

Getting up early is hard for me.

朝早く起きるのはつらいです。

Written つらい · つらいですRank #568 in 3,030 TV dramas

kitsui

polite kitsui desu

tough; hard (on you); tight (clothes); harsh (words)

For anything demanding: a hard workout, a packed schedule, tight shoes.

Zubon ga kitsui = my trousers are tight. Kitsui iikata = a harsh way of putting it.

casual

kono shigoto, kekkou kitsui yo.

This job is pretty tough.

この仕事、けっこうきついよ。

polite

kono shigoto wa kekkou kitsui desu.

This job is pretty tough.

この仕事はけっこうきついです。

Written きつい · きついですRank #1698 in 3,030 TV dramas

shindoi

polite shindoi desu

exhausting; tough; worn out

Covers both a draining task and how drained you feel: 'kyou shindoi' = I'm wiped today.

Started in Kansai, now used everywhere. Close to tsurai and kitsui, but more about fatigue.

casual

kyou wa zangyou de shindokatta.

Today was exhausting with all the overtime.

今日は残業でしんどかった。

polite

kyou wa zangyou de shindokatta desu.

Today was exhausting with all the overtime.

今日は残業でしんどかったです。

Written しんどい · しんどいですRank #3271 in 3,030 TV dramas

kurushii

polite kurushii desu

painful; hard to breathe; hard to bear

Strain you are struggling under: a tight chest, being too full, money trouble.

Tsurai is emotional hardship; kurushii leans physical. Kurushii iiwake = a lame excuse.

casual

tabesugite onaka ga kurushii.

I ate too much, I'm painfully full.

食べすぎてお腹が苦しい。

polite

tabesugite onaka ga kurushii desu.

I ate too much, I'm painfully full.

食べすぎてお腹が苦しいです。

Written 苦しい · くるしい · 苦しいですRank #1049 in 3,030 TV dramas