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Eating out with friends

Conversation phrases, Stage 4chunk 2 of 23Errands and service

Get a meal or drinks with friends going, from the first beer to splitting the bill.

Mix-ups Okawari (a refill) and okaikei (the bill) both start with o-ka and get swapped.

toriaezu biiru

polite toriaezu biiru onegai shimasu

beer to start

The classic first order at an izakaya so the group can toast quickly; food comes after.

Toriaezu alone means for now: toriaezu ikou (let's just go for now).

casual

minna, toriaezu biiru de ii?

Beer to start for everyone?

みんな、とりあえずビールでいい?

polite

toriaezu biiru mittsu onegai shimasu.

Three beers to start, please.

とりあえずビール三つお願いします。

Written とりあえずビール · とりあえずビールお願いしますWho you say it and hear itHeard too rare in film subtitles to count

okawari

seconds; a refill

Asks for another bowl of rice or a refill, or offers one (okawari wa?).

Okawari jiyuu means free refills. As a verb: okawari suru.

casual

okawari aru yo. iru?

There's seconds. Want some?

おかわりあるよ。いる?

polite

sumimasen, gohan no okawari onegai shimasu.

Excuse me, could I get more rice?

すみません、ご飯のおかわりお願いします。

Written お代わり · おかわりWho you say it and hear itHeard 73× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles

okaikei onegai shimasu

the bill, please

Asks restaurant or bar staff for the bill; at many places you then pay at the register (reji) by the exit.

Okanjou onegai shimasu is also common at izakaya.

casual

sumimasen, okaikei onegai shimasu.

Excuse me, could we get the bill?

すみません、お会計お願いします。

Written お会計お願いします · おかいけいおねがいしますWho you say itHeard 22× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles

betsubetsu de onegai shimasu

separate bills, please

Asks to pay separately at the register; staff may ask goissho de yoroshii desu ka? (together?).

Splitting the total evenly among friends is warikan.

casual

okaikei wa betsubetsu de onegai shimasu.

We'll pay separately, please.

お会計は別々でお願いします。

Written 別々でお願いします · べつべつでおねがいしますWho you say itHeard 10× in 3.17 million lines of film and TV subtitles

chuumon ii desu ka

can we order?

Calls staff over when you're ready to order; start with sumimasen!

Many places have a call button on the table instead.

casual

sumimasen, chuumon ii desu ka?

Excuse me, can we order?

すみません、注文いいですか?

Written 注文いいですか · ちゅうもんいいですかWho you say itHeard too rare in film subtitles to count